Monday, March 5, 2012

And if you've ever wanted to know why do men lie and what you can
do get them to tell you the truth, then I have something pretty
phenomenal to share with you today.

Now, if you're like most women you've probably been lied to by a
man...

Actually, I can pretty much guarantee it.

The simple fact is, men lie to women all the time...

About little things...

About big things...

About things that don't seem to matter at all...

And a lot of women want to know WHY?

WHY can't he just tell me the truth?

My friend Michael Fiore (he's a nationally known relationship
expert who's helped thousands of women understand men and who even
appeared on Rachael Ray) says there's actually THREE reasons that
men lie to women (and two of them are actually pretty
innocent...here's the first one that tends to SHOCK a lot of women.)

Michael says that men lie to women because men are SCARED of women.

Not physically (not usually, though occasionally you hear about a
woman going all "Bobbet" on her  man by relieving him of his
you-know-what.)

Nope, Michael says men are scared of women's EMOTIONS.

See, it might sound weird, but emotions are actually harder for
guys to deal with and to recover from for guys than they are for
women.

According to Dr. John Gottman at the University of Washington women
can both enter and recover from extreme emotional states a LOT
faster and easier than guys can.

If you think about it, it makes sense.

We've all seen a woman burst into tears one moment only to be
totally fine 5 minutes later.

But when it comes to emotions, guys are a lot more "fragile."

Gottman says it's because of evolution.

Guys were evolved to be single taskers.

To push everything out of their mind except the one thing they're
hunting.

And because of that we're slower to get into an emotional state and
MUCH slower to get back out of it once we get there.

I like to think of it like swimming.

Getting "emotional" for women is a lot like jumping off a dock into
a lake.

You get wet, sure. But the dock is right there and just a few
seconds later you're safe and dry...

But for guys, "getting emotional" is like getting dropped in the
middle of the ocean...

Bobbing in the water.

Surrounded by sharks.

With land nowhere in site.

For us...it sucks!

But what does this have to do with LYING?

Everything.

From a very young age, guys learn that if we tell you the truth you
could FREAK OUT on us...

FLOOD us them with scary emotions...

And push them out in the ocean where it'll take them hours to
recover.

From over-bearing mothers to emotionally train-wrecked girlfriends,
MILLIONS of men have been conditioned to "lie" to women in order to
avoid emotional warfare.

Of course there's other reasons that guys lie too...

And other mysteries of men that the "guys" in your life simply
never tell you about...

If you want to truly understand men, you should drop whatever
you're doing and go watch this amazing new video Michael Fiore has
just released...

It gives you "X Ray Vision" into the minds of men...

And tells you all about an astonishing (and affordable) new program
Michael's created to answer every question you've ever had about
men and the way they think...

In it you'll learn:

* What he really thinks of you (and why men are so BAD at showing a
woman that he loves her.)

* Why he looks at other women, what it MEANS when he looks at
another woman and what really goes through his head when he sees a
hot girl walking down the street...

* Why men cheat...and how to drain your man's desire to cheat on
you just by saying a few simple words.

* The dirty truth about a man's sexual mind...why your man WANTS to
be objectified and how to give him sexual thrills that will have
him addicted to you

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